The Missing Coefficients: Bayesian Pairwise Merging for Model Personalization

Yaling Shen, Tongtong Wu, Siyuan Yan, Gholamreza Haffari

How can we personalize a shared expert library from a user's pairwise choices? Prior work can realize different reward trade-offs by merging reward-specialized experts, given a vector of trade-off weights. In practice, users can more naturally choose between outputs than specify numerical weights. The challenge is therefore to turn these choices into the coefficients required for merging, while accounting for ambiguity when feedback is limited. Our key idea is to treat the unknown reward weights as latent variables: infer a posterior over them from pairwise choices and reward-score differences, and use its mean directly as the merge coefficients. We instantiate this idea as Bayesian Pairwise Merging (BPM), whose posterior also characterizes which reward trade-offs remain plausible given the feedback. We evaluate BPM on radiology summarization, image captioning, and story generation, spanning text-to-text and image-to-text generation. With 100 feedback per simulated persona, BPM achieves macro decided win rates of 91.7%, 77.1%, and 64.3% against uniform merge. For six pairs of simulated personas, each prefers the model fitted to its own feedback, a pattern also observed in a human…