When to Remember, When to Abstain: Category-Conditioned Retention for Reliable Agent Memory

Olukunle Owolabi, Pulkit Gupta, Fei Wang

Persistent agent memory is only as reliable as its retention decision: an assertion weakly supported by its source can be stored and later reused as established fact. We study whether the retention decision should be governed by a confidence bar conditioned on the semantic category of the assertion rather than by a single global threshold, retaining well-evidenced categories liberally while abstaining more aggressively where inference is unreliable. We evaluate this in a deployed cold-start memory pipeline on 100 synthetic personas. The empirical evaluation is motivated by a sharp reliability asymmetry: across 4{,}715 candidate assertions, only 77.9\% of value and belief assertions are supported by their source, versus 96.2\% for all other categories. A global confidence threshold cannot separate these: it either admits unsupported value claims or discards well-evidenced ones. Conditioning the threshold on category resolves the tradeoff. In repeated held-out evaluation, a stricter bar on values alone reduces unsupported retentions from 6.2\% to 4.0\% (an ${\approx}36\%$ relative reduction, modest but consistent across folds) and, as corroborating evidence, preserves an estimated…